Trout.capers,olives,wine,butter,in panWhen cooking to spark a conversation or take the evening in a certain direction, one had to consider what recipes one would choose.  What is behind the recipes/menus?   One has to recall what has worked in the past.  Some questions one should think about are: “What did I cook that made me learn intimacy within myself, or with a man, or with another friend”?  “What did I feel when we cooked that certain dish, and what did I learn”?

Cooking can teach intimacy and help people get it.  Most crave intimacy but some will never have it.  How can you coach someone?  What recipes would you cook if you wanted to have a deeper connection with someone?    What recipe got you there?